tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7373667877120602218.post4025476852267118849..comments2023-09-24T06:53:40.729-04:00Comments on Are You Sure You're Doing It Right?: Why don't you try...~ Allihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01351643160505444108noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7373667877120602218.post-71701870065975496872011-02-14T23:04:17.630-05:002011-02-14T23:04:17.630-05:00Hi.. I'm quite a new blogger too and enjoying ...Hi.. I'm quite a new blogger too and enjoying sharing and reading other's experiences :)<br /><br />I got the drinking one too.. a friend recommended vodka cocktails in particular! And she's a normally very sensitive, tactful friend!<br /><br />What got me was when an OBGYN told me to 'relax and it will just happen'... since found out that it very probably won't happen naturally - surely Drs should know better than to say this stuff?!China Dollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03462824778269002060noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7373667877120602218.post-87886865767407181712011-02-12T09:05:41.010-05:002011-02-12T09:05:41.010-05:00Thanks again everyone!!
Brie - thanks for the com...Thanks again everyone!! <br />Brie - thanks for the compliments! Welcome to my mind! ha! I would love to be able to send some of these to my friends/family who make these ridiculous suggestions and have the validation from others in the comments section. Maybe people would learn to just shut the hell up! haha!~ Allihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01351643160505444108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7373667877120602218.post-61890211525849295812011-02-11T20:00:32.419-05:002011-02-11T20:00:32.419-05:00LOVE LOVE LOVE your blog..Just found it today, and...LOVE LOVE LOVE your blog..Just found it today, and hope to catch up reading this weekend. This post resonates to me to the point that I think i need to write something like this on my blog for my family and friends who are like broken records with all of the "You know what you should do's" on getting pregnant..look, if it were that easy, we'd have a gaggle of kids, alright? LOL..Briehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17808884896862082312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7373667877120602218.post-50733648248740100582011-02-02T17:28:35.193-05:002011-02-02T17:28:35.193-05:00"Stop stressing and it'll happen."
..."Stop stressing and it'll happen."<br /> <br />Oh, is that all it takes? <br /><br />After years on this journey, anyone who's had any trouble conceiving can tell you it's impossible to stop stressing. Those that say that have no idea.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09335353073249821723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7373667877120602218.post-87134802710362438292011-02-01T18:46:24.868-05:002011-02-01T18:46:24.868-05:00"Just give it time, it will happen"
I l..."Just give it time, it will happen"<br /><br />I like that one a lot. Apparently the 7mo of intense TTC and fertility meds, etc were wasted. Who knew all we needed to do is wait and bam - pregnant!<br /><br />I also just recently started blogging about our dealings with IF. I wish you great luck and 2 lines very soon!Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03357280337675044927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7373667877120602218.post-87880083249700389102011-01-31T15:26:32.044-05:002011-01-31T15:26:32.044-05:00All the advice - if that is what we can actually c...All the advice - if that is what we can actually call it - is awful! People clearly have no idea how painful this experience is or they would keep their "advice" to themselves.E and Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11960045172275370437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7373667877120602218.post-540703291596847222011-01-31T13:12:26.860-05:002011-01-31T13:12:26.860-05:00Thanks Cattiz J! :o)Thanks Cattiz J! :o)~ Allihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01351643160505444108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7373667877120602218.post-10649965239436469802011-01-31T10:47:00.492-05:002011-01-31T10:47:00.492-05:00Haha yeah the wise and good advice right. I was al...Haha yeah the wise and good advice right. I was also very naive in the beginning.. thought it would happen sooner than later.<br /><br />Best wishes and welcome to the blogging community.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7373667877120602218.post-80112970791297126642011-01-31T10:17:28.507-05:002011-01-31T10:17:28.507-05:00bean dreams - so glad you found my blog! I can app...bean dreams - so glad you found my blog! I can appreciate a fellow newbie blogger & will check yours out too. We can vent and cry together, and keep searching for those 2 pink lines.<br /><br />AnnaMarie - thanks for the follow! I am so sorry to hear about your story. I cannot even imagine. You're right about the "God's will" comments - I always knew there were a lot of stupid people out there...just didn't realize so many of them would be giving advice!!~ Allihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01351643160505444108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7373667877120602218.post-7747760654791161162011-01-31T08:30:00.793-05:002011-01-31T08:30:00.793-05:00Here through LFCA.
While not in the same situati...Here through LFCA. <br /><br />While not in the same situation as you (stillbirth), I've heard some of these and OH MY GOSH the comments about borrowing someone else's kid are SO RUDE. Also comments about it being "God's will" are very insulting. <br /><br />"Are you sure you're doing it right?" Classic!AnnaBellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01614241329182982677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7373667877120602218.post-52262916920576924842011-01-30T23:29:50.331-05:002011-01-30T23:29:50.331-05:00Just ran across your blog through LFCA. Just bega...Just ran across your blog through LFCA. Just began my blog too, and I agree it is a wonderful way to occupy my ever analyzing mind! Hope you find the support you are looking for here in the blogging world!<br /> <br />I will chime in on agreeing that the advice just relax is the most obnoxious comment one can give to a TTCer, no matter where they are along their journey. (This is probably a runner up, though to the irksome question, "So you've been trying for awhile now, why aren't you pregnant?" Really? <br />I wish I could relax during all this, not try, as they say. But, how can you be trying to conceive and stop trying? I just don't comprehend this. <br /><br />Good luck in fighting off those comments and glad to hear you're doing it right! lol : )bean dreamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03190918138869732617noreply@blogger.com